Hiya everyone. It has been a crazy week for me. I was ill and in the hospital, home now, still resting, recuperating and thankful to be back here. Thank y'all who kept checking up even when I did not have a post up. I appreciate you all.
So, I came across this quote today and it got me thinking. I actually do agree with what it says and I feel it is unfair to the ones who love more in relationships. Why should the one who loves more suffer for it? Is it a crime to be in love with another?
OK, I need to calm down, I don't even know why I am letting this annoy me so much. But if you have had a friend cry to you because they aren't getting back the love and attention they are investing in a relationship, it makes you mad. How then do you tell them to stay away and see what happens without them thinking 'this one na winch'?
Seriously though, can we just learn to appreciate those who give us all the love in them or just be bold enough to let them go if you wont go all in?
Remember, what goes around, comes around. Karma is looking for whose arse to bite. Don't let it be you. Be bold enough to do the right thing.
Do you agree with the quote? Ye or nay? Please share your opinions.
xxo
Those who love more hurt the most.
ReplyDeleteI agree o!
ReplyDeleteHow are you feeling now!! Hope you're better? Kpele
DeleteI am good now my darling. Thanks.
DeleteSorry my darling! Well, why would someone want to control the relationship when it is apparent being a control freak even in friendship leaves a bad taste in the mouth of others?
ReplyDeleteI tire oh. How are you doing dear?
DeleteEhmm I for one totally believe that there is never really a balance as relating to love. One person always loves more than the other, one person always puts in more than the other. But is that Bad? Hell No!!! I mean if you are in a relationship for something other than Sex or money, this will not TOTALLY bother you, cause in time, the other person will warm up to you. However if you suspect that the Love coming from the other is too little for comfort, then your prescription to step back is quite needed. Cheers Bubba. I am glad you are better. Pele.. MAy God heal you totally. xx
ReplyDeleteDuru oh! How did you get so wise ehn? You made plenty sense my dear.
Deleteit's true jare. Especially if the difference in love is very large say 20/80.
ReplyDeleteThe person that loves more is always at the beck and call of the person they move.
However I believe that it's also impossible to love equally so if it's a small imperceptible difference then it's not a big deal. Nobody has control in that kinda relationship.
I just thought about the fact that we can't love equally and you are right. Hmmm....
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