Hey Peoples!
It’s been a minute.
I know, I know… just that life has been lifing.
#whew!
So a conversation happened that got me thinking… so much so that it made me want to get serious-ish with stuff, with the blog and maybe more.
Ok, let me gist you. The other day, I attended a friend’s birthday party and the celebrant introduced me to another guest and this happened.
Celebrant to Lady: you’ve met my friend, right?
Lady: No, I don’t think I have.
Me: shakes head as mouth was busy with sweet puff puff
Celebrant to lady: This is AA’s wife.
Lady lights up: Oh, you’re the writer!
Me to myself: Writer bawo? *swallows puff puff*
Me to nice lady: Oh no, I am not a writer.
Nice lady: You know XYZ in Shreveport, right? She told me about y’all and she says you’re a writer.
Me still confused: Yes, I know her but I am not a writer.
At this point, another friend, Momma Ify, who was with us looks at me and says ‘but you write naa, how about your blog?’
Me in a state of lol: Ehn but that is not writing writing like that naa…
At this point, momma Ify went ahead to make my head swell by saying how much of a good writer she thinks I am. I sha stood there accepting the hype but not with full chest cz who are y’all talking about?!
I however remember I met the lady from Shreveport through my blog page on the ‘gram and I thought to myself, so like this now, this lady has been seeing me as, and introducing me as a writer and I’ve never considered myself one?
What does it even mean to be a writer? I know I enjoy doing this and I started cz I wanted to put down my feelings on stuff, opinions and the occasional amebo out there and for no one in particular, I just wanted a fun type thing. I also started anonymously because I was not confident in my writing and not sure anyone would even be interested in reading it.
But this lady saw me as a writer *sneakering*. She saw me as more than I saw myself and that made me feel good and then it made me feel bad about myself. I felt good because I felt ‘seen’ then I felt bad because I didn’t see myself.
I always shied away from saying I had a blog and even when I began to say that I did, I always felt I was not writing anything serious which is why I only sent links to posts to my close friends only. There would be days I’d go through others’ blogs and ask myself why I do not write ‘serious’ stuff in a serious tone like they do. Then I’ll will myself to write like them but whenever I do, it just does not feel like me *does that even make sense?*
Anyways, after thinking long and hard, I have now decided to be me, to embrace my writing style and generally, to myself, be true.
So please allow me to introduce myself…*shouting on top of my lungs* My name is Zandaborom *whispers* and I am a writer.
Stay hydrated.
xoxo
PS: I don’t even know if this post title even gels like that but that was what popped up in my head when I thought of writing about this and I went with it.
